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【转载】不要在不喜欢你的人 那里丢掉了快乐  

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不要在不喜欢你的人

那里丢掉了快乐

2014年10月31日 - 菲儿 - 菲儿博客
 
 

这个世界,总有你不喜欢的人,也总有人不喜欢你。这都很正常。而且,无论你有多好,也无论对方有多好,都苛求彼此不得。因为,好不好是一回事,喜欢不喜欢是另一回事。 刻意去讨人喜欢,折损的,只能是自我的尊严。不要用无数次的折腰,去换得一个漠然的低眉。纡尊降贵换来的,只会是对方愈发地居高临下和颐指气使。没有平视,就永无对等。也不要在喜欢不喜欢上,分出好人和坏人来。带着情绪倾向的眼光,难免会陷入褊狭。咬人的,你不能说它是坏狗。狗总是要咬人的,这是狗的天性和使命。也就是说,在盯着别人的同时,还要看到自我的缺陷和不足。

 

梦醒时分-梦醒时分的博客



当然了,极致的喜欢,更像是一个自己与另一个自己在光阴里的隔世重逢。愿为对方毫无道理地盛开,会为对方无可救药地投入,这都是极致的喜欢。这时候,若只说是脾气、情趣和品性相投或相通,那不过是浅喜;最深的喜欢,就是爱,就是生命内里的粘附和吸引,就是灵魂深处的执着相守与深情对望。

这是一场诡秘而又盛大的私人化进程。私人化的意思就是,即使无比错误,也无限正确。有时候,你的无数个回眸,未必能看到一个擦肩而过。有时候,你拿出天使的心,并不一定换来天使的礼遇。如果对方不喜欢,都懒得为你装一次天使。谁也不需要逢场作戏。尽管,一时的虚情假意,也能抚慰人陶醉人,但终会留下搪塞的痛,敷衍的伤。


梦醒时分-梦醒时分的博客


 

所以,这个世界最冒傻气的事,就是跑到不喜欢的人那里去问为什么。不喜欢就是不喜欢了,没有为什么。就像一阵风刮过,你要做的是,拍拍身上的灰尘,一转身沉静走开。然后,把这个不喜欢自己的人寂然忘掉。

一个人,风尘仆仆地活在这个世界上,要为喜欢自己的人而活着。这才是最好的态度。不要在不喜欢你的人那里丢掉了快乐,然后又在喜欢自己的人这里忘记了快乐。

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